Forced-Bi.com is joined today by one of the self-styled “OGs” of the femdom world. And if you have surfed the fetishistic corners of the worldwide web, I would bet that you have stumbled across her.
Please welcome the gorgeous and self-assured, Meggerz!
Thank you for joining us today! First of all, What do you go by?
“Princess Meggerz. I know, wtf is a ‘Meggerz’? I could have chosen a stage name but instead I went with my nickname from mIRC.We’re talking years ago. I didn’t even know what a stage name was.
“And I don’t think it’s worth it now to ‘rebrand’ myself. People know who I am.”
I was just about to ask you to explain where the name “Meggerz” came from! That’s awesome!
So, my next question was going to be what descriptors you prefer – “Domme,” “Mistress,” etc. But, it’s obviously Princess. Yes?
“I coined myself ‘Princess’ years ago when it felt most appropriate. Now a little older and a little wiser, being referred to as ‘Princess’ is cringeworthy to say the least. But I’ll take them all. As long respect is shown, it’s appropriate.”
Thinking generally of your role as you define it, do you see yourself as engaging in fun, lifestyle, role play, social activism, or something else?
“I see my online persona as role play. It’s my sole profession and I stick to what makes me the big bucks.
“With that being said, I’ve noticed that I am and always have been the alpha in all my personal relationships. I tend to date men who are more interested in supporting what ultimately makes me the happiest, giving me the final say so in all aspects of our life together.
“I also don’t see my work as being social activism.
“At the end of the day I am giving men erections and orgasms. It’s a supply and demand. And I just so happen to be really good at understanding the power-exchange dynamics.
“I think it is empowering for women to be able to make a career for themselves using their minds and bodies, not having to rely on ‘a man’; but without men, we wouldn’t be making money.
“I think it’s most important for women to do what they are most comfortable with. It will reflect in what they do. I am most comfortable with being in control.”
All right. Let me ask about your clients, then. There are a number of words (e.g., betas, losers, masochists, slaves, subs, etc.) that sometimes describe the people who seek out the services of someone like you. What word do you prefer for these kinds of people?
“Submissive. And every submissive I interact with is different. The most common trigger word is to use is ‘loser,’ but I prefer to get to know each submissive and figure out which title is most accurate.”
Intriguing! You seem adept at getting into guys’ minds.
How long have you been doing this online?
“Ha! I created a findom blog back in 2007 (?) when LiveJournal was where it was at! And let me tell you, the ‘scene’ has changed. I’ve witnessed so many girls come and go, so much drama, so much catty hate. I grew up with the ‘original online dommes’ the OG (original goddesses) and I’d like to believe we’ve helped pioneer the fetish web and made it as mainstream as it is today.
“I started camming years before that. I’d have to say I’ve been at it forever.”
Check out the full interview at Forced-Bi.com